Willow’s Walk

Willow is now 16 years old and she has had consistency with the same White Gold worker for over 3 years. During this time, there have been considerable changes both externally and internally for Willow and she is now thriving in supported living whilst continuing her education, with a part time job and a developing network of friends.  Her growing independence and confidence is a credit to her and such a rewarding thing to be a part of.

Willow was initially referred when she was accessing sporadic online education with no other social engagement following an unsuccessful managed school move.  The referral documentation described challenging behaviour and anxiety and Willow had a diagnosis of autism.  Contrary to this, her Engagement worker found her open and engaging, if a little shy at first.  A trusting relationship was established through open dialogue on walks, bike rides, shopping, café visits and trips out to find new places and the trauma of Willow’s home life began to unfold.  Willow had suffered physical and emotional abuse in the home and despite a previous disclosure, had felt isolated and disregarded.  Her trauma was displayed in aggressive behaviour and dysregulation although never once was she aggressive or non-responsive with her White Gold worker.  As more information emerged, the extent of the abuse and significant poor mental health in the home situation continued to disrupt Willow’s own well-being.  She began to take more risks by self-harming and putting her life in serious danger as she had little regard for her own life and became periodically overwhelmed by the effects of her experiences.  Through frequent hospitalisations and arrest by the police, her White Gold Worker was there with a consistent approach and continued support.

During one extended hospital stay, the diagnosis of autism was replaced by ADHD and Willow was prescribed several medications.  White Gold support continued through the hospital stays with trips out and about, often with the welcomed accompaniment of the support worker’s dog.  A previous eating disorder re-emerged and the stability of home was still questioned.  Willow’s school placement was ended and with an EHCP, an alternative school was arranged.  Throughout this time, the risk taking behaviour continued and as isolated from her peers, Willow was also taking risks with newly formed friendships and relationships.  Her eating was sporadic and she began drinking alcohol.

Throughout the pandemic, White Gold support continued virtually and contact occurred in socially distanced open places.

With the decision last year for a care order, Willow entered the foster care system and experienced several placements throughout the county, which all broke down.  White Gold Cornwall continued supporting Willow in different locations and through virtual media as a consistent presence in her life.  On turning 16, she was able to access supported living and her mental health continues to improve as she takes responsibility for making decisions about her life.  She is able to manage her finances, she cooks and eats well and regularly attends a gym.

We still meet and walk and visit the café and when we reflect on shared past experiences and on what she has survived and built on, it is with positivity.  White Gold Cornwall may no longer be needed for the same level of support but the mutual respect between the young person and her mentor will forever remain as a positive legacy.